decided to write about it because it has long fascinated me, I like to listen to the relationships of people who lived through something similar or have had contact in any other way-not physical.
The phenomenon that I am mainly interested in the feelings that accompany people rooted in this relationship, a lot of reading on this subject and am inclined to the theory that there is indeed a sex, but in short .. very short run. Two people promise each other purely physical sensations, it is nice sometimes fun, excitement crackled, the excitement reaches its zenith .. all of a sudden, one person begins to feel something more. And what then, I ask? What next with these principles of bezuczuciowości? I know the answer, which I think is pretty obvious .. shall fall into ruin and the entire such an arrangement.
What happens when these people?
theory goes, each in his own direction on the nipple of separation. And in practice? Involved party, suffer, thrashes about, beating the thoughts of "What next?". I've heard stories in which a man zadurzonej said a woman in it (after acknowledging the feelings of the woman) that they can no longer meet because they do not want to lie to a girl you just met, and which interested him. Is not it cruel? Lest there are also stories of the opposite, that it violates a woman's heart in a similar way to men.
I have a similar experience behind him, only that I was party to "catching". I do not like to boast that because it was one of the most atrocious and the stupidest things I've done. Hurt feelings of a man which in some ways was important to me and I regret it. In terms of the same sex .. Well .. I do not regret this because I like him very much and gave me a kind of pleasure, but it could play a little differently, just do not enter into such an arrangement.
Our meetings began with the talks, each of us had poharatane heart, we needed the warm words of consolation. We had to be just friends and we were .. Lovers (?) - This word sounds strange in the XXI century. no but in reality it actually was. Did not decide among themselves rules for how you want it, our rules were not spoken. Once I got a text message that reads: " Ann, I love you." was shocked, but I wrote back that I feel the same-error. I should have him say at once that there is nothing to it because it does not feel then it was just worse .. Our parting was perhaps one of the most painful, despite the absence of my feelings for him. This boy behaved at least imbalance, saws, ćpał, obmawiał behind, when he was building the relationship (based on feelings) tried to destroy him. Therefore, I promised myself that no more such adventures ..
In summary, I think there is no such thing as "sex without commitment" because sooner or later one of the parties to engage. You can not be separated for a long time to sex feelings, because it is an experience so intimate and full of different kinds of emotions that a person is unable to separate them-they subconsciously still stuck in our minds. I realize that people will still be incorporated into such systems, but nevertheless do not support such a relationship and would not recommend it to anyone.
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